Friday, October 19, 2007

Baby Safety Tips

The safety of your child is of the utmost importance. This week, I heard the most terrible story. A woman was washing her child up and went to get her other daughter out of the living room, leaving the 11 month old in the tub for just 30 seconds. When she came back, the baby had received severe burns. She was trying to stand up, and grabbed the faucet for leverage. The faucet came on, sending scolding hot water on her body. A few days later, she died.........

This is a sad, but true story, and I hate to even talk about it, but I do care about the well being and safety of every child. Here is a fact according the the Home Safety Council.

Fact:
Over 2,000 children die every year as a result of intentional home injury, and the highest rates come from babies under a year.

There are four leading causes of infant deaths. I have taken the time not only to give you the causes, but ways to prevent anything like this from ever happening to you or your child.

Cause #1 (Drowning)
More than half of infant drownings occur in bathtubs. The story I told you about the woman is a natural, but sad occurrence. Baby seats should be avoided if you are not going to be there with your child at all times. The suction cups beneath the seat usually come loose, and can cause the seat to turn over. The best solution is to watch your child at all times while bathing, and have all supplies within arms reach.

Children's (kiddie) pools are another thing that you should be cautious of. It's been estimated that about 300 children drown each year in swimming pools under the age of 4. If you are going to let your child swim, you should always do your own safety checks to ensure the safety of your child. Always stay within arms length of your baby.

Another cause of drowning is water in cleaning buckets. Children - mostly infants - drown every year from falling headfirst into buckets (including toilets). The best prevention for this is to ensure that all toilets are closed in the house. Even if you are at a guests house, this is something you should consider doing. When cleaning, make sure your baby is secure in their playpen or crib.

Cause #2 (Suffocating)
The leading cause of infant death is suffocation or unintentional choking caused by sleeping with your baby. The number of deaths caused this way have been increasing. You should always put your in a crib. If you want your baby close to you while you sleep, the best solution to this is getting a crib that attaches to the side of your bed. Now, speaking of cribs, it's important to make sure that that you keep the crib clutter free. What I mean by this is the use of pillows and blankets (and teddy bears, etc). Objects that have the potential of falling on your baby, or you baby can roll on top of, can be life threatening. Babies normally don't have the strength to push off or roll off an object that's suffocating them. Instead of a blanket, use an infant sleep sack. It has the same affect as swaddling a baby in a blanket. It keeps them warm and secure, and most important, safe.

Coin sized foods are dangerous to a newborn. You should never feed your baby popcorn, nuts, grapes, piece of meat such a hot dog, chicken, etc. Your baby's windpipes are not developed to the stage of swallowing these types of items. Anything between the size of a dime and quarter should be avoided. If you do decide to feed them some items such as these, I recommend cutting them up into smaller pieces. I do not recommend feeding them any type of candy or nuts.

Cause #3 (Burns and Fires)
This is a common area because a lot of parents haven't researched enough on the proper temperatures for infants. It's a fact that if a child is exposed to 140 degree water for three seconds or more will sustain a third degree burn, so knowing water temperature is extremely vital. When giving your baby a bath, the temperature of the water should never exceed 100 Fahrenheit. It should feel warm, not hot to you.

Spilled coffee is another common area of unintentional child burns. This can happen from parents juggling infants in one hand, and coffee in another. This is a ''No, No''. If you are going to drink coffee while holding your baby, you should use a travel mug instead. Also, never leave coffee on the kitchen table with your infant around. The have a tendency to pull on the tablecloth, which just so happens to have your coffee mug on it. I don't need to tell you what can happen.

Cause #4 (Falls)
Babies love to climb, both up and down. This is OK, as song as you're keeping a watchful eye on them. What happens when you're not watching can be a catastrophe, or even fatal. Having baby gates will prevent stair accidents. I have to mention that there are different types of baby gates that you can use, and I only recommend one for long term use. There is ''the pressure baby gate'' and ''the installed baby gate''. A pressure gate (to me) is only good for short term use. The reason I say this is because a baby can push hard enough to force the gate to move. I would only use this at a friend's or family's house where you're there for the day. In your own home, it's better to use an installed gate. This is a gate that is mounted to the wall. You should use one for the top of the stairs AND the bottom. Remember, most babies like to crawl UP the stairs. A lot of parents forget this fact, and only worry about their infant falling DOWN the stairs.

Fact:
More than 3900 children under the age of 4 were treated for baby-walker related injuries in 2004. A more alarming fact is 80 percent of these injuries to infants were being supervised by the parent or guardian. I have written a previous article about this subject. Please read for more information.

Please always remember that your baby's safety is the most important thing. I recommend that you take CPR classes (free) at the American Red Cross. This will be useful if you're ever in a situation where you have to administer life - saving techniques to your baby, or another's. I hope you have found this information useful. If you do have a caregiver, you should pass this on to them.

Sincerely,
The Caring Mom

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

The Screaming Child

Wow! I just read a post from a lady who works for a daycare. She has a child who is 27 months old who consistently screams all day for 8 hours. None of the children want to play with him, because he just screams at them. She has tried going to the parents and suggested a speech therapist, but they say they're too busy with work to take him. Here is what I think.........

A child needs to be loved. First and foremost. Before the job. Before the success. Before anything else. As a parent, it is your responsibility to take care and nurture the child you brought into the world. So many parents lose this part of them. This process starts at the home, and it starts by setting time aside from your BUSY SCHEDULE to make time for the one you brought into this world. In the situation mentioned above, we don't have all the facts. There could be a number of reasons the child's behavior is so poor. It could be......

  1. Inadequate time spent with the child from the parents
  2. Not correcting the child's bad behavior and showing them the proper way to act.
  3. Unplanned pregnancy, which can lead to the emotional neglect of the child
  4. Not caring about the developmental stage of your child
These are a few reasons why poor behavior can be caused. It's not the child's responsibility to teach himself etiquette skills, or correct himself for bad behavior. It's the responsibility of the parents, and in my opinion (only my opinion), there is some type of serious neglect happening. I would love to hear your thoughts on this subject.

Sincerely Yours,
The Caring Mom

Introducing Solid Foods

When is the best time to introduce solid foods to your infant? Is it time to ween them off of breast milk or the formula? These are questions that hundreds, even thousands of mothers have everyday. I am here to offer some sound advice.

You shouldn't be in such a rush to take your infant off of breast milk (or the formula). Breast milk provides all of the necessary nutrients that your growing infant needs during the early stages of life. Formulas are also good because most are supplemented with vitamin D and iron. These are essential to a growing infant. Trying to feed your child “solid foods” to early could cause some complications. There are, in fact some serious risks associated with premature feeding of solid foods.

I have been reading various doctors reports on this subject, and most have the exact same information about this subject. Here are some point’s and information that they all say.

  • Some infants will appear unsatisfied with both breast and bottle feeding. This is a natural occurrence. It only means that they have accelerated growth. It seems as though they are always hungry and demanding. The way to resolve this issue is by increasing the volume and frequency of their feedings. This can also mean that they are preparing for the introduction to solid food, but haven’t reached that stage yet.
  • Young infants have a natural reflex called the “extrusion reflex”. This reflex causes them to push away something placed in their mouth. They are definitely not ready for solid foods during this stage, so you shouldn't try to force them to eat from a spoon until this natural reflex is no longer visible.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, they recommend that you do not introduce solid foods until four to six months down the line. This is to ensure that their baby stomach (gastrointestinal system) has time to develop the ability to digest and metabolize food. I hope that you find this information useful.

Sincerely,

The Caring Mom